To mark Father’s Day, Daniel Wiser, Jr. considers America’s epidemic of fatherlessness—a social crisis first brought to national attention by Daniel Patrick Moynihan in 1965. The crisis may be most manifest in the problems plaguing today’s young men, caused, Wiser argues, at least in part by the lack of male role models.
To fill such voids, boys and young men sometimes turn to troubling figures. Perhaps the most disturbing is Andrew Tate, the kickboxer-turned-influencer of the online “manosphere” who revels in misogynistic rhetoric and offers a vision of masculinity that prizes beautiful women, expensive cars, and physical fitness. European authorities have initiated criminal investigations against Tate, who has been accused of sexual misconduct, human trafficking, and money laundering.
Besides his behavior, bad advice, and marketing of various scams to his followers, Tate has also praised Hamas, accused Israel of genocide, and displayed vulgar anti-Semitism. Nor is he the only prominent anti-Semite in the so-called “manosphere.”
As an antidote, Wiser points to the activities of churches. His analysis is deeply rooted in Christian theology, but American Jews have an investment in the success of such Christian endeavors—and Jewish communal institutions are capable of having similar salutary effects:
Non-profits such as Communio have worked with churches to offer ministries focused on marriage preparation, relationship skills, and faith development. And these efforts appear to be working—in just a few years after Communio started its work, its programs helped lower the divorce rate in Jacksonville, Florida, by 24 percent. Forge, a Catholic organization in Des Moines, Iowa, is also doing great work “to build a foundation of healthy fathers, strong families, and empowered evangelizers to revitalize the family, transform our culture, and rebuild the Church.”
Being raised in a religious household exposes boys to other “fathers” beyond their biological one. . . . Through men’s groups and other ministries, churches and religious institutions can facilitate organic and cross-generational relationships among boys, young single men, married men and fathers, and pastors and priests. Such relationships are invaluable for imparting models of faithful manhood.
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