For the past several years, there has been much talk in Orthodox Jewish circles, particularly those that lean haredi, of a shiddukh (matchmaking) crisis. Usually, the crisis boils down to the fact that the supply of eligible women outnumbers that of eligible men. The situation gave its name to a movie, directed by Chaya Gurkov, that premiered earlier this month. Lauren Hakimi writes:
Gurkov, a Brooklyn College graduate and member of the Chabad-Lubavitch community, drew on personal experience to make the film, but invented the characters and dialogue. The film, which is consistently funny and heartwarming, tracks the full life cycle of one woman’s potential shiddukh, or match, from the matchmaker’s recommendation to the (spoiler alert!) proposal, which takes place two months later right outside the Chabad-Lubavitch headquarters in Crown Heights.
Gurkov also said she wanted to combat harmful on-screen stereotypes of Orthodox Jews. “I wanted to create a story that showed that many of us are comfortable in our religion,” she said.
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